Reactive Abuse

Reactive response - after you have had your limits exceeded countless times.

When the victim responds to manipulation with anger, yelling, or a breakdown – and the narcissist then uses the reaction as “proof” that you are the problem.

A classic reversal of roles.

The narcissist will push you as far as you would ever think possible. When they finally get you to react violently against them, you will be blamed for this and will be held accountable in all future discussions where this will be used against you over and over again.

It is also an argument the narcissist will use to tell everyone else about you.

It is vulgar, degrading and vile.