Out of “Hermit mode”
- Annelise Burholt
- Dec 18, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: Dec 27, 2025

Yes, I mean that I need to get out of the self-chosen "hi" I've been in for far too long.
Over the years, I have become extremely introverted and am not as socially organized as I used to be.
There are many reasons for this, including the fact that I am a magnet for people who only bother me when I can contribute something and not otherwise.
Not to mention all the romantic relationships that I'm not too good at understanding either, funny enough...
I am a person who always sees the best in everyone and can always understand when others are having bad days or are going through difficult times.
However, I am naive as hell. I am because my world is completely different and because I don't have the ability to imagine getting close to other people just to exploit or manipulate them for my own purposes.
Apparently it's "the new black" and it's not for me.
That's why I'm very much for myself. I'd rather do without and I really can't stand any more fake people in my life who can't be there in good times and bad.
Do you also know about this??
Now I have created this website and the purpose of this is many things.
Including writing books, giving lectures and helping others in the unfair fate that comes when you are torn apart as a person in a divorce or breakup.
I have clients in sessions online, which works really well, and now I need to get out of my "hi" a bit because I have to promote my new book, etc.
Here comes my problem....
I hate having to be on public display… taking pictures of myself, and promoting myself.
It's very borderline for me and I "hate" it.
I hope I can get better at "showing myself off" because it's always nice to see the face of someone you might want advice or therapeutic help from. :)
Today I posted a picture on my website and I promise I'll get much better at giving more of myself here on the blog, etc.
I'm best "live" and not via social media🤪🥰😍
I have a lot to say and am good with people and all situations in general, but I need more experience with this social media and promoting you here.
I hope you can bear with me a little longer🌻🦄🥳❤️



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