The spiritual part

If you are thinking about why the spiritual part is included on this page that deals with people and their dysfunctional patterns, etc., then you should know that the breakup or divorce with a narcissist or other type of toxic personality puts so much pressure on you as a human being that you don't understand it.

Where you would normally be able to obtain information, knowledge, good advice, etc., does not exist and it is impossible to find peace within yourself due to this major existential crisis in which you find yourself.

 

You will have a lot of effortless questions and you will feel completely destroyed in your body, mind and soul. This is where many find comfort and a greater purpose in the madness.

The spiritual person is much more than those you hear about in everyday speech such as clairvoyance, tarot cards, angels, "spirit guides", etc.

 

By turning the big perspective a little on its head and asking yourself some other questions, you will discover that the hell you are going through can and does have a greater and higher purpose for you, as a human being and your soul.

There is learning to a degree that is so massive that you as a human being, during the process but certainly also when you have progressed a little further, will probably not be without it.

Your soul chooses in this break to learn the ultimate, namely to love yourself and not compromise with yourself anymore. This learning takes most people one or more lifetimes to learn, but you who are going through or have gone through this massive transformation, have chosen a "fast track" to self-love.

This is the purpose of the madness and you can gain more clarity about this with me in a session with "your soul's learning"

I am convinced that many times you have had the thought that you are being punished by "god" or the universe, and that you must have been a really bad person in a past life, since you are now being offered this from the person you love the most.

To that I can say that you are being offered this because you are a strong soul who has chosen one of the hardest lexicons a soul can choose and that is the one you are in right now.